Everything
that happens to us out of our actions can be explained in the following
context. Apply to all the situations you have been into - due to your
actions ( It excludes situations that you get into without your
intention like a fall, accident etc etc) Its all about our respective
"spheres" and the extent of exercising
our "free will" within that sphere Problem starts when you are not
conscious & aware of your respective spheres.. You identify the
wrong sphere & exercise inapproppriate free will.. And we fail
miserably..
So, how do you get into the right space?
1. Do what makes YOU Dharmically happy first , your family happiness follows automatically. But remember - for an angry man, "anger" makes him happy , for a politician, cheating makes him happy & thats his Free Will within his mis-interpreted sphere . Thats why I said "Dharmically"
2. Never never get into "jealousy" and "envy" mode . The minute you feel these, it means you have recognized your 'inferiority' . And, live to EXCEL and not to COMPETE. Jealousy & envy vanish automatically . The other man is happy or successful because He CHOSE to be SO & you didnt.
3. Anger- Ideally avoid it but practically, you can get angry but before it recognises you, get OUT of it. Which means , you have a 'microsecond' romancing with anger and thats all.
4. True enlightenment is when you go back to reclaim what you renounced earlier ... BUT you REACT to the same events that made you renounce , "DIFFERENTLY" . In fact, ultimate reaction is "Non-Reaction". Zendo helps..
Have i missed something... Yes - Never try to Understand & Interpret God - Just trust .. or choose to be an Atheist . Its eithr 0% or 100%.
So, how do you get into the right space?
1. Do what makes YOU Dharmically happy first , your family happiness follows automatically. But remember - for an angry man, "anger" makes him happy , for a politician, cheating makes him happy & thats his Free Will within his mis-interpreted sphere . Thats why I said "Dharmically"
2. Never never get into "jealousy" and "envy" mode . The minute you feel these, it means you have recognized your 'inferiority' . And, live to EXCEL and not to COMPETE. Jealousy & envy vanish automatically . The other man is happy or successful because He CHOSE to be SO & you didnt.
3. Anger- Ideally avoid it but practically, you can get angry but before it recognises you, get OUT of it. Which means , you have a 'microsecond' romancing with anger and thats all.
4. True enlightenment is when you go back to reclaim what you renounced earlier ... BUT you REACT to the same events that made you renounce , "DIFFERENTLY" . In fact, ultimate reaction is "Non-Reaction". Zendo helps..
Have i missed something... Yes - Never try to Understand & Interpret God - Just trust .. or choose to be an Atheist . Its eithr 0% or 100%.
