When the grand plan unfolds at some right point in life, making you say "omg, that's why it happened to me " , that is the most beautiful moment when we smile at ourselves with complete realisation of the fallacy of the " why me" s we have been troubling God with .. So .. stop the ' Why Me ' s . There is a Grand Plan . The program is meant to work, complete its mission and self annihilate . That's all .