The Grand Plan

Someday  the grand plan unfolds at some right point in life, and makes  you say "omg, that's why it happened to me !" .  That is the most beautiful moment when we smile at ourselves with complete realisation of the fallacy of the " why me" s that  have been troubling God with .. So .. stop the ' Why Me ' s There is a Grand Plan . It should unfold . The programme is meant to work, complete   its mission  and  self  annihilate without external triggers 

Metamorph !!!

Your pain is understandable .

But  Just think of the day when 

suddenly out of the dark there emerges 

the real  successful You ,

 whom others around you have never seen

comes out like a butterfly out of caterpillar , 

batting those beautiful wings and says

“SURPRISE “ to the whole world that now opts to see you with Awe…

Believe in metamorphosis !!!

Helps a lot. 

I am the Moment

What is it that we want to know about ourselves ?  Is it How permanent we are ? Is it  what will happen to us after some point in time ? Is it the unquenched thirst to  know our true REALITY ?

Let me tell you - Our TRUE reality is that WE ARE "NOW". We are the Time & space that exists at all points in  a grand weave. This moment is US. Do we need so many learnings ? Were we not happy not even chanting a hymn  but simply BE in the moment a few decades ago - playing roman rings with ropes tied to the  mango tree?  When did this all stop ? When the first FEAR struck us . The first FEAR that immobilised us. Had we not even recognised the fear , we would have won from day 1.  We succumbed to the first fear . The FEAR was that we might lose something - a person / a comfortable circumstance / thing , etc etc. And then FEAR took over . Our BEING in the moment stopped.  I have a simple explanation for Dark & Light . When FEAR rules us, Darkness takes control. When we Rule the fear, the Light takes charge. Life is as simple as that.  Fear of the unknown is what makes us go to miracle doers and seers .  I do not think we go  in our quest for true knowledge . Because , when you are truly in quest for true knowledge, it COMES to you. You do NOT have to GO to anybody. Actually " seeking" is  the disguise for our actual " seeking solution to the unknown fear".

Here are the takeaways..

Start looking at every moment as a moment of "fearlessness". Until the moment you fell   off the staircase, did  you ever have a fear that you might fall ? No - it was an accident. It was a future that you never ‘thought of’. You were in a state of 'fearlessness' of a fracture happening until the moment it happened. Now , reverse it - We are in a state of Fear of future - what might happen . It could quite NOT happen at all - the event that  you think that might happen in future . You never know about it . Be fearless about not just your thoughts, but also about anyone who thinks negatively. That might not happen also . Dont give importance to the thought. The only solution to this is to STOP all the quest and start BEing in the Moment . This MOMENT is us.. This MOMENT is the truth that you always wanted to know . Nothing Else. Be in the Moment - you will manifest all from the abundance around you.

Here is  the  next learning - GOING WITH THE FLOW - without resisting . When we master this , then there is going to be Nothing for us to resist because the current will favour us .Will it give us the Money that we want to manifest  or the   million dollar job ?  YES .. and this is the ONLY   secret to manifest . The goal - the Number - is already there in your mind. You have already written in the cosmos. When you are in the MOMENT - without resisting - your entire energy is conserved for creating your favourite reality . Because your mind has nothing BUT the million dollar job that you want.No doubts.. No fears..  And it happens .

Dont do anything because if you didnt do it , you will feel guilty . Dont do it because you want something else in return . Do because You LOVE to do it.  Don’t do that job you hate to  because your family depended on it. Do it because you LOVE to see your family happy. You will stop hating your job.

The Greatest TRUTHs are the SIMPLEST  -  Love & The Moment. Nothing more & beyond..

Is there truly nothing called death

The Fakir says " There is nothing called death".
Well.. it satisfies me to believe that there is nothing called death.. Quite gratifying from the Gods !!! It lifts me out of the abysmal fear of death.  But, wait a minute .. Am I really afraid of my death or is it the fear of what might happen to my kith and kin, the ones that love me .. my children.. what would happen to them.. To them , I would have died.. There is no way that I am going to be able to convince them that its okay to not live. It doesnt really matter to me. I would not live a single milli micro nano pepto second to see them, their agony. But dear Fakir, it matters to them because they would never see me.
So, before giving me the strength to believe that there is no death, give the strength of accedptance to the ones near me. Its not funny, to see someone mourn another's permanent absence .. you got it?
Its not funny to make a loving heart  to mourn the undeserving death of someone they loved . I hope I made my point.. As usual , waiting for your answer.

The man in the mirror

We can talk about love , compassion , sympathy, humane .. call it in any name that calls for the softer side of your nature to play its role, the truth is that we can live without any of these . All that matters is how happy I have made the one in front of me . Could be with more love or less anger . And how happy the other man’s happiness makes me . If it does not  make you happy , trust me .. Just love yourself . Ultimately,

The man in the mirror  should smile at you , no matter who you are . 

Surrender or Liberate

Decide .

Whether you want to live your life thinking that 

some eye in the sky is watching over  every thought , 

every action of yours  

OR

Just YOU who is watching .

Makes a lot of difference .

The first one leads to Surrender .

The second one leads to Liberation . 

EnLIGHTen yourself .

De 'condition' .. De 'karmify' yourself

We all came with the knowledge . Whatever we want to learn , to seek - we already know . 

We have just forgotten and keep forgetting every lifetime because we are subject to such conditioning like we are victims of bad karma , beneficiaries of good karma  etc . We are conditioned to believe that we are sinners . Please humans , we are wonderful BEings  . 

The minute we get out of our conditioning , we probably will realize our true nature and start living a guilt free life .

We are a pure speck of a grand form,  tainted by conspiracies of the powerful ,  again and again falling into the web woven by them , birth after birth . 

All we need to learn is to clean the moss around the true nature of ours  by realizing EITHER  in our true nature -  we are just the same as whom we grandify - " dhaivam  bhoothvaa Dhaivam Thyaja "  way  OR that everything is as per the grand plan and we are just executors - "Sarve dharmaan parityajya  Maamekam SharaNam Vraja "  way . Both ways , we escape the requirement of cleansing process . Being an ostrich at times makes us immune to external conditioning . 

 Life ' Live Light'  ... Live ' Light Life '

- Lessons learnt from BE ing :-) 

On Freewill

Surprisingly , this is a note that I have written about a year ago - cant remember what made me write this but definitely yes - it must have been a lesson i learnt by wrong application of my free will & ending up in a mess... Yet, it makes sense to me every moment of accomplishment & failure. Now for my thoughts....

Everything that happens to us out of our actions can be explained in the following context. Apply to all the situations you have been into - due to your actions ( It excludes situations that you get into without your intention like a fall,  accident etc etc) Its all about our  respective "spheres" and the extent of exercising our "free will" within that sphere  Problem starts when you are not conscious & aware of your respective spheres.. You identify the wrong sphere & exercise inapproppriate free will..  And we fail miserably..

So, how do you get into the right space?
  
 1. Do what makes YOU Dharmically  happy first  , your family happiness follows automatically. But remember - for an angry man, "anger" makes him happy , for a politician,  cheating makes him happy  & thats his Free Will within his mis-interpreted sphere  . Thats why I said "Dharmically"

2.  Never never get into "jealousy" and "envy" mode  . The minute you feel these, it means you have recognized your 'inferiority' . And, live to EXCEL and not to COMPETE. Jealousy & envy vanish automatically . The other man  is happy or  successful because He CHOSE to be SO & you didnt.

3.  Anger- Ideally avoid it but practically, you can get angry but before it recognises you, get OUT of it. Which means , you have a 'microsecond'  romancing with anger and thats all.

4. True enlightenment is when you go  back to reclaim what you renounced earlier ...  BUT you REACT  to the same events that made you renounce , "DIFFERENTLY" . In fact, ultimate reaction is "Non-Reaction".   Zendo helps..

Have i missed something... Yes - Never try to Understand & Interpret God - Just trust .. or choose to be an Atheist . Its eithr 0% or 100%. 

Landmine Life

Landmine Life

If a relationship cannot give that secure feeling that my next step would not be on a landmine.. its a fake relationship. There is no honesty in it.. no truth.. Its like we are cheating ourselves in the name of that "relationship" . The most successful relationships are those where each one works around the limitations of the other. Not the ASSUMED limitations.. I'm talking about the REAL limitations. This might look a little negative .. but this is a more realistic approach. We strengthen ourselves by what each other know. But what creates the first crack is an expectation surpassing the limitation of the other. Expectations get built around one's ability.. in any relationship. Limitation is the max efficiency one can perform that 'action' that he is able to do. When I say I cook well, you cannot assume me to be your personal "Nigella" . I cannot be your personal ' aishwarya rai' or ' sharukh' or even your personal 'man / woman next door' , who always appears better than me. In a husband-wife relationship, there is an acceptance of the limitations of each other , appreciation & strengthening of the specialities of each other , work within this premise - all happening in a warp of love. Do you feel this is idealistic? It just implies that you are not really HAPPY. Just introspect....