Surrender or Liberate

Decide .

Whether you want to live your life thinking that 

some eye in the sky is watching over  every thought , 

every action of yours  

OR

Just YOU who is watching .

Makes a lot of difference .

The first one leads to Surrender .

The second one leads to Liberation . 

EnLIGHTen yourself .

De 'condition' .. De 'karmify' yourself

We all came with the knowledge . Whatever we want to learn , to seek - we already know . 

We have just forgotten and keep forgetting every lifetime because we are subject to such conditioning like we are victims of bad karma , beneficiaries of good karma  etc . We are conditioned to believe that we are sinners . Please humans , we are wonderful BEings  . 

The minute we get out of our conditioning , we probably will realize our true nature and start living a guilt free life .

We are a pure speck of a grand form,  tainted by conspiracies of the powerful ,  again and again falling into the web woven by them , birth after birth . 

All we need to learn is to clean the moss around the true nature of ours  by realizing EITHER  in our true nature -  we are just the same as whom we grandify - " dhaivam  bhoothvaa Dhaivam Thyaja "  way  OR that everything is as per the grand plan and we are just executors - "Sarve dharmaan parityajya  Maamekam SharaNam Vraja "  way . Both ways , we escape the requirement of cleansing process . Being an ostrich at times makes us immune to external conditioning . 

 Life ' Live Light'  ... Live ' Light Life '

- Lessons learnt from BE ing :-) 

On Freewill

Surprisingly , this is a note that I have written about a year ago - cant remember what made me write this but definitely yes - it must have been a lesson i learnt by wrong application of my free will & ending up in a mess... Yet, it makes sense to me every moment of accomplishment & failure. Now for my thoughts....

Everything that happens to us out of our actions can be explained in the following context. Apply to all the situations you have been into - due to your actions ( It excludes situations that you get into without your intention like a fall,  accident etc etc) Its all about our  respective "spheres" and the extent of exercising our "free will" within that sphere  Problem starts when you are not conscious & aware of your respective spheres.. You identify the wrong sphere & exercise inapproppriate free will..  And we fail miserably..

So, how do you get into the right space?
  
 1. Do what makes YOU Dharmically  happy first  , your family happiness follows automatically. But remember - for an angry man, "anger" makes him happy , for a politician,  cheating makes him happy  & thats his Free Will within his mis-interpreted sphere  . Thats why I said "Dharmically"

2.  Never never get into "jealousy" and "envy" mode  . The minute you feel these, it means you have recognized your 'inferiority' . And, live to EXCEL and not to COMPETE. Jealousy & envy vanish automatically . The other man  is happy or  successful because He CHOSE to be SO & you didnt.

3.  Anger- Ideally avoid it but practically, you can get angry but before it recognises you, get OUT of it. Which means , you have a 'microsecond'  romancing with anger and thats all.

4. True enlightenment is when you go  back to reclaim what you renounced earlier ...  BUT you REACT  to the same events that made you renounce , "DIFFERENTLY" . In fact, ultimate reaction is "Non-Reaction".   Zendo helps..

Have i missed something... Yes - Never try to Understand & Interpret God - Just trust .. or choose to be an Atheist . Its eithr 0% or 100%. 

Landmine Life

Landmine Life

If a relationship cannot give that secure feeling that my next step would not be on a landmine.. its a fake relationship. There is no honesty in it.. no truth.. Its like we are cheating ourselves in the name of that "relationship" . The most successful relationships are those where each one works around the limitations of the other. Not the ASSUMED limitations.. I'm talking about the REAL limitations. This might look a little negative .. but this is a more realistic approach. We strengthen ourselves by what each other know. But what creates the first crack is an expectation surpassing the limitation of the other. Expectations get built around one's ability.. in any relationship. Limitation is the max efficiency one can perform that 'action' that he is able to do. When I say I cook well, you cannot assume me to be your personal "Nigella" . I cannot be your personal ' aishwarya rai' or ' sharukh' or even your personal 'man / woman next door' , who always appears better than me. In a husband-wife relationship, there is an acceptance of the limitations of each other , appreciation & strengthening of the specialities of each other , work within this premise - all happening in a warp of love. Do you feel this is idealistic? It just implies that you are not really HAPPY. Just introspect....

The celebration

Its your  story..

No matter whether its all pre destined or it’s a new book  ;

No matter whether you start writing it now or erasing ;

No matter if you like it now or not , 

Your story is a celebration ..

A celebration where you thank the universe for giving you the  great breath that tides over everything , a wonderful body to experience every sense, a Great Mind that remains untapped of its potential most of the times . 

The key is to call your Good as Good  and  your bad as a Good  for someone and  stay calm knowing that there is no difference .

Enjoy the celebration.

The point of No return

I believe there are no event horizons in life. ( An event horizon is a point of no return in the language of astrophysics .  Every moment you have a choice to return . To return to the world where you would be lot happier. Whether your circumstances decide your destiny or your destiny decides your circumstances, you are never at a point of no return. Your free will shall always choose a path  that gives you a point of return..

Because ..

There’s always another way. You always knew it but forget occasionally .

The Wire Walk

Inspired by "The Walk "

The threads of bonding.. Has to be cut off one by one . But It cannot happen when I am walking on the wire..the wire is  the tool. I have to cross the void and reach the other side . Once I reach, it gets cut automatically , because as I walked, as I took  the journey with non attachment, the threads go away one by one .. by themselves, from the wire that I have been walking on .. to cross. And while I am done , I am there at  the other end.. I don't see the wire , neither the void nor  the ends which  I thought  they existed . I see just myself .. The Undaunting spirit .